Last Updated on June 16, 2026 by I Love Spanish Club
In Spanish, reflexive verbs are used when the subject of the verb is both the doer and the receiver of the action — in other words, you’re doing something to or for yourself. They’re one of the most essential grammar structures for talking about daily routines, personal care, and emotional changes. In this complete guide you’ll learn reflexive pronouns, how to conjugate reflexive verbs, when to use them, and how to avoid the most common mistakes. ¡Vamos a aprenderlo!
🔄 What Are Reflexive Pronouns?
Reflexive pronouns are placed before the conjugated verb and match the subject of the sentence. Here’s the complete table:
| Subject | Reflexive Pronoun | Example |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | Me | Me levanto a las 7. |
| Tú | Te | ¿Te duchas por la mañana? |
| Él / Ella / Usted | Se | Ella se llama Laura. |
| Nosotros / Nosotras | Nos | Nos despertamos tarde. |
| Vosotros / Vosotras | Os | ¿Os vestís rápido? |
| Ellos / Ellas / Ustedes | Se | Se acuestan tarde. |
💡 Key tip: In the infinitive form, reflexive verbs always end in -se: llamarse, levantarse, vestirse. This “-se” tells you the verb is reflexive before you even start conjugating it.
📋 Conjugation of Reflexive Verbs
To conjugate a reflexive verb: (1) drop the -se from the infinitive, (2) conjugate normally, (3) add the reflexive pronoun before the verb.
Llamarse (to call oneself / to be named)
| Subject | Conjugation | Translation |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | Me llamo | My name is |
| Tú | Te llamas | Your name is |
| Él/Ella/Usted | Se llama | His/Her name is |
| Nosotros | Nos llamamos | Our names are |
| Vosotros | Os llamáis | Your names are |
| Ellos/Ellas/Ustedes | Se llaman | Their names are |
Levantarse (to get up)
| Subject | Conjugation | Translation |
|---|---|---|
| Yo | Me levanto | I get up |
| Tú | Te levantas | You get up |
| Él/Ella/Usted | Se levanta | He/She gets up |
| Nosotros | Nos levantamos | We get up |
| Vosotros | Os levantáis | You all get up |
| Ellos/Ellas/Ustedes | Se levantan | They get up |
📅 When Are Reflexive Verbs Used?
1. Daily Routines
| Me ducho cada mañana. | I shower every morning. |
| Ella se peina antes de salir. | She combs her hair before leaving. |
| Nos acostamos a las 11. | We go to bed at 11. |
2. Reciprocal Actions
| Nos abrazamos cuando nos vemos. | We hug each other when we see each other. |
| Se quieren mucho. | They love each other very much. |
3. Emotional States
| Me enojo fácilmente. | I get angry easily. |
| Ellos se preocupan por su futuro. | They worry about their future. |
🔁 Reflexive vs Non-Reflexive
| Non-Reflexive | Reflexive |
|---|---|
| Lavo el coche. (I wash the car.) | Me lavo las manos. (I wash my hands.) |
| Peino a mi hija. (I comb my daughter’s hair.) | Me peino. (I comb my hair.) |
| Levanto la mano. (I raise my hand.) | Me levanto a las 7. (I get up at 7.) |
📍 Placement of Reflexive Pronouns
| Before conjugated verb | Me levanto temprano. |
| Attached to infinitive | Voy a levantarme. OR Me voy a levantar. |
| Attached to gerund | Estoy levantándome. OR Me estoy levantando. |
🗣️ Commands with Reflexive Verbs
| Affirmative — pronoun attaches to end | Lávate las manos. / Vístete rápido. |
| Negative — pronoun goes before verb | No te levantes tarde. / No te vayas. |
💬 Real Conversation Examples
📍 Morning routine
Mamá: ¡Carlos, despiértate! Ya son las 7.
Carlos, wake up! It’s already 7.
Carlos: Me desperté hace un momento. Me voy a duchar en cinco minutos.
I just woke up a moment ago. I’m going to shower in five minutes.
Mamá: Vístete rápido y cepíllate los dientes antes de bajar.
Get dressed quickly and brush your teeth before coming down.
Describing your daily routine is one of the first things you’ll do in a real Spanish conversation — and reflexive verbs are the backbone of it. A native tutor on Italki can walk through your entire morning routine with you in Spanish, correcting pronoun placement and verb forms in real time until they become automatic.
⚠️ Common Mistakes English Speakers Make
❌ Forgetting the reflexive pronoun
❌ Levanto a las 7. (sounds like “I lift something at 7”)
✅ Me levanto a las 7.
❌ Using possessives with body parts
❌ Me lavo mis manos.
✅ Me lavo las manos. — use the definite article, not a possessive!
❌ Wrong pronoun position in affirmative commands
❌ Te lava las manos.
✅ Lávate las manos. — pronoun goes at the END in affirmative commands.
❓ Frequently Asked Questions
What’s the difference between “dormirse” and “dormir”?
Dormir = to sleep in general. Dormirse = to fall asleep (the moment of transition). Duermo 8 horas (I sleep 8 hours) vs Me dormí viendo la tele (I fell asleep watching TV). The reflexive version adds a nuance of change or transition.
Can reflexive verbs be used in all tenses?
Yes — the reflexive pronoun stays the same across all tenses. Me levanto (present), me levanté (preterite), me levantaba (imperfect), me levantaré (future). The pronoun always matches the subject and always comes before the conjugated verb.
What’s the best way to practice reflexive verbs?
Describe your own daily routine out loud in Spanish — me despierto, me ducho, me visto… This is the most natural context and the repetition cements the pronoun. Watching morning routine vlogs or family shows on LingoPie is also great — you’ll hear reflexive verbs used constantly in completely natural speech.
📚 Keep Learning
- 👉 Personal Pronouns in Spanish
- 👉 Direct and Indirect Object Pronouns in Spanish
- 👉 Regular Verbs in Spanish
Exercises
- Fill in the blank with the correct reflexive pronoun.
2. Drag the correct reflexive pronoun to the sentence.
3. Choose the correct form of the verb.
4. Highlight the reflexive pronouns and verbs in each sentence
5. Indicate if the sentence uses reflexive verbs correctly (True) or incorrectly (False).