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Spanish Object Pronouns: Me Te Se Nos Lo La

Last Updated on May 27, 2026 by I Love Spanish Club

Object pronouns in Spanish — me, te, se, nos, lo, la, los, las — are one of the most important and most confusing topics for English speakers learning Spanish. They appear constantly in everyday conversation, but their placement and usage follow rules that are very different from English. In this complete guide you’ll learn exactly how and when to use each Spanish object pronoun, with clear explanations, tons of examples, and a video to reinforce everything. ¡Vamos! (Let’s go!)


🎬 Watch First — Spanish Object Pronouns Explained

Start with this video for a clear visual explanation of how object pronouns work in Spanish:


❓ What Are Object Pronouns in Spanish?

In English, we use object pronouns like me, you, him, her, it, us, them to replace nouns that receive the action of a verb. Spanish works similarly — but with two important distinctions:

  • Spanish has direct object pronouns (lo, la, los, las, me, te, nos) — what or who receives the action directly
  • Spanish has indirect object pronouns (me, te, le, nos, les) — to whom or for whom the action is done
  • Spanish also has reflexive pronouns (me, te, se, nos, os, se) — when the subject does the action to themselves
💡 Key difference from English: In Spanish, object pronouns usually go BEFORE the conjugated verb — not after it like in English. “I love you” = Te amo (literally “you I love”). This takes some getting used to!

📋 Complete Object Pronouns Table

PronounTypeEnglish equivalentExample
MeDirect / Indirect / Reflexiveme / to me / myselfMe llamas. (You call me.)
TeDirect / Indirect / Reflexiveyou / to you / yourselfTe veo. (I see you.)
SeReflexive / Indirecthimself / herself / themselvesSe ducha. (He showers.)
NosDirect / Indirect / Reflexiveus / to us / ourselvesNos llaman. (They call us.)
LoDirect (masculine)him / it (masculine)Lo veo. (I see him/it.)
LaDirect (feminine)her / it (feminine)La llamo. (I call her/it.)
LosDirect (masculine plural)them (masculine)Los conozco. (I know them.)
LasDirect (feminine plural)them (feminine)Las veo. (I see them.)
LeIndirectto him / to herLe doy el libro. (I give him the book.)
LesIndirect (plural)to themLes escribo. (I write to them.)

🔵 ME — The Most Common Pronoun

Me is used when you are the object of the action — someone is doing something to/for you, or you are doing something to yourself.

SpanishEnglishUse
Me llamas.You call me.Direct object
Me das el libro.You give me the book.Indirect object
Me ducho.I shower (myself).Reflexive
Me duele la cabeza.My head hurts me.Indirect object
Me encanta el café.I love coffee.Indirect object
💡 Tip: Me gusta, me encanta, me duele, me parece — these super common phrases all use me as an indirect object pronoun. Mastering me alone will improve your Spanish dramatically!

🟡 TE — Talking to “You”

Te is used when you’re talking to someone informally and they are the object of the action.

SpanishEnglishUse
Te amo.I love you.Direct object
Te llamo mañana.I’ll call you tomorrow.Direct object
Te doy un regalo.I give you a gift.Indirect object
Te lavas las manos.You wash your hands.Reflexive
¿Te gusta el español?Do you like Spanish?Indirect object

🔴 SE — Reflexive & Third Person

Se is one of the most versatile pronouns in Spanish. It’s used for reflexive actions (doing something to yourself) and as an indirect object when combined with lo/la/los/las.

Reflexive use

Ella se peina.
She combs her hair.

Él se afeita.
He shaves.

Se llaman Juan y María.
They are called Juan and María.

Se duermen a las diez.
They fall asleep at ten.

Se + lo/la (replacing le + lo)

⚠️ When le or les appears before lo, la, los, las, it changes to se to avoid the sound “le lo”:

Le lo doy → ✅ Se lo doy. (I give it to him/her.)

Les la mando → ✅ Se la mando. (I send it to them.)


🟢 NOS — We/Us

Nos is used when “we” or “us” is the object of the action.

SpanishEnglishUse
Nos llaman.They call us.Direct object
Nos dan dinero.They give us money.Indirect object
Nos levantamos tarde.We get up late.Reflexive
Nos vemos mañana.We’ll see each other tomorrow.Reciprocal

🟠 LO / LA / LOS / LAS — Direct Object Pronouns

These replace a specific noun that is the direct object of the verb. The pronoun must match the gender and number of the noun it replaces:

NounPronounExample
El libro (masculine singular)LoLo leo. (I read it.)
La carta (feminine singular)LaLa escribo. (I write it.)
Los libros (masculine plural)LosLos compro. (I buy them.)
Las cartas (feminine plural)LasLas mando. (I send them.)

¿Tienes el libro? Sí, lo tengo.
Do you have the book? Yes, I have it.

¿Ves a María? Sí, la veo.
Do you see María? Yes, I see her.

¿Conoces a los chicos? No, no los conozco.
Do you know the guys? No, I don’t know them.


📍 Where to Place Object Pronouns

Rule 1: Before a conjugated verb → Te llamo mañana.

Rule 2: Attached to the end of an infinitive → Voy a llamarte.

Rule 3: Attached to the end of a gerund → Estoy llamándote.

Rule 4: Attached to affirmative commands → ¡Llamame!

Rule 5: Before negative commands → ¡No me llames!


🎯 Quick Practice Quiz

Choose the correct pronoun:

  1. I see her. → ___ veo. (lo / la / le)
  2. She calls me. → ___ llama. (me / te / se)
  3. He washes himself. → ___ lava. (me / te / se)
  4. I give it (the book) to him. → ___ ___ doy.
  5. They love us. → ___ aman. (me / nos / les)
👉 Click to see the answers
  1. La veo.
  2. Me llama.
  3. Se lava.
  4. Se lo doy.
  5. Nos aman.

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